b'WHATS IN IT FOR THE CHILDREN?You may have spent more time planning your kids weddings than youhave on your own future life plans. After all, thinking about lifes what-ifs isnt very much fun. On the other hand, if the unplanned-for happens, its likely to be your adult children wholl be thrust into the position of making decisions on your behalf. But youre not going to let that happen. Because you know your decision about moving to a senior living community is a gift to them. Heres why:First,it means youll tackle the sorting and downsizing now. They know they wont face those responsibilities later, possibly while under duress.Second,your decision resolves their concerns about your safety andwell-being. When the community offers a continuum of care, your children wont worry about your long-term health care needsor about having to make decisions for your care on your behalf. Theyll know where youll beand who will take care of you.And finally,they like it when youre happy. Choose well, and your senior living community lifestyle will delight you. New friends, plenty todosoon, its your children who will wonder why you havent called.18'